When Rafting Meets Romance

Posted by: Alyson Smith in romanceRiver GuidesLower New RiverACE Adventure Resort on  

Alyson Smith

I was looking for some blog inspiration and I found it — wearing a plastic helmet and P.F.D.  Her name is Sharon.

She brought her adult son and daughter, as well as her slightly-nervous-son-in-law on a Premier Lower New trip.  We met at ACE's put-in, made brief introductions, and headed for the current.

On the surface, Sharon didn't appear to be the perfect blog inspiration.  She was enthusiastic, but enjoyed letting her kids do more of the talking.  They had interesting lives and stories, but pieces of information about their mother kept coming to the surface.

When her daughter, Sarah, talked about her mother providing venison (deer meat) for the family, I couldn't resist some prying.  It turns out that Sharon is an avid hunter and fisher-woman.  She enjoys those hobbies with her boyfriend.

And here is where the "Rafting Romance" enters the story.

Sharon met her boyfriend, Joe, at ACE on a rafting trip 15 years ago!  She was a recent divorcee and joined a chartered bus trip heading for West Virginia with the goal of meeting everyone on the trip.

By the end of the weekend, she had nearly accomplished this task, but there was still one last "unapproachable" guy.  She forced herself to make conversation and they ended up sitting together for the 11-hour bus ride home.

"We've been together ever since," Sharon said.

Now, believe me, I've had a few moments on the river that nearly brought me to tears, but this was certainly the happiest of those moments.

The rest of the day was filled with sunshine, good rapids, interesting stories, and fun people.  I really couldn't ask for a better day on the river.

For the last rapid, the slightly-nervous-son-in-law was sitting closer to the front of the boat and declared that he would like to do more rafting.  Brandy, another nervous boater, had decided to jump from Jump Rock and also swim through a swimmers' rapid.  So I'd say it was a success!

And the experience reminded me how I'm not just providing a trip down the river.  I might be part of a budding romance, a blossoming hobby, a burgeoning life change.  Okay, I'll get my head out of the clouds; you get the picture.

But if you're thinking what I'm thinking, you'll put together a "singles trip" of your own or join up with a group and come to ACE.  Need some inspiration?  Here are my top five reasons why whitewater rafting makes a great first date:

1. No worries about your outfit — we provide the rafting apparel.

2. The group setting helps keep the conversation moving.

3. Food is provided, so there's no stress over ordering, paying, etc.

4. The scenery is better than the best movie theater and the action is not digitally produced.

5. When a "hottie" helps to pull you back in to the raft (seemingly saving your life), romance sparks will fly!  Just try to keep it PG!

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written by Kelly, August 25, 2009
Adrenaline and pheromones are a powerful combination!
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written by Brianna, August 27, 2009
Not to mention... what a great "how we met" story for dinner parties! ;)

I really love hearing experiences like this. It's amazing to me how small the world is when we take the time to get to know other people around us, even if it's just on a rafting trip.
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written by Big Wave Dave, August 27, 2009
Make new friends and new connections. Every trip on the river is a unique experience all its own and in part due to the combinations of personalities of the people in the boat. I had a scout trip where at the beginning there was one boy who was kind of different and the others weren't interacting very much with him. By the end of the trip, he was falling a little behind the other boys getting back to the raft after a swimmers rapid and 2 boys jumped back in to
swim back to him so he wouldn't be alone while he caught up to the boat. Comraderie, friendship, team building, and from your story, even romance. So many good things wrapped up in the package of a rafting trip! Good story-thanks for sharing.
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written by Alyson, August 27, 2009
It's true...outdoor adventure can really bring out the best in people. I think we could all stand to be challenged once in a while.
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written by Daniel, September 14, 2009
Alyson your comment is sooooo true! Last year was my first time rafting and it was a blast! My group did the reverse Gauley. The group I was with we have been friends for about 25 years now and I am only 31. We were in boy scouts and every year since we have graduated high school except for the 4 years I was in the Navy we have done something in the outdoors for a vacation every year. The outdoors brings us all closer together while we are doing what ever task we have picked. Two years ago it was hiking 26 miles in the Cumberland Gap, last year we took on the Gauley this year we are taking on the Gauley. One friend I used to talk with allot but don't anymore put a comment on my facebook the other day that made me laugh. He was amazed at me counting down with you guys the Gauley season start and one of the friends that was with me last year was on the trip and put a comment on there like it's a Gauley thing you wouldn't understand he then came back and said Daniel you have turned into a real outdoorsman. I laughed and replied "if you only knew!"
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written by kelly in albany, September 16, 2009
Great story! Well written and incredibly sweet. Next time I visit, I will be taking a bus down to West Virginia.

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